Moving on


You know you moved on when you love the memories but not the person;
You know you’re broken when you hate the memories but love the person.

It’s a hard road either way. When people tell you time heals everything, don’t believe them, it’s a lie. You move on with time? No. Time moves on, like it always does and you think you moved on because you’re distracted by a series of events that you’re going through.

We never move on.

We just have other important things in life that need attention.

You see? It’s simple.

You wanna get better? Stop paying attention. When they say you attract what you think, this is what they actually mean. When you pay attention to something, your thoughts flow in that direction without you noticing them and they shape your actions in the least trackable way. We all know love fades and it’s never the same after a while.

Love is temporary but commitment is real. Don’t let dopamine control you.

You know someone’s perfect for you?? Give them your commitment first because love fades eventually.

Good luck.

Good thoughts.

47 Comments Add yours

  1. Nameera says:

    Chee, they’ve nothing to do with nostalgia but a lot to do with embarrassment of being a loud kid lmao. Also a confidently flawed actor! πŸ˜‚

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    1. Chee mat bolo.
      Now I’ve crossed the limits of being curious. The abyss of my curiosity drags me deeper into your darkness.
      Loud kid, eh? So you’re not the silent kind.

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      1. Nameera says:

        Mere bare mai itna mat socho, dil mai aati hun samajh mai nahi!

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        1. Ooh ooh!!
          Samajne ki koshish bhi nhi kar rha madam, bas sun rha.😊

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          1. Nameera says:

            Sunte raho. Iske alawa kar hi kya sakte ho. πŸ‘

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            1. Han na😐
              Par dekhunga short films ek din
              InShaAllah.😊

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            2. Nameera says:

              Only time will tell whether you do or not. 😊

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            3. Behes karna pasand hai na tumko?

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            4. Nameera says:

              Bohot. 😁

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            5. Mujhe bhi.😎

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            6. Nameera says:

              I figured. πŸ˜‰

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            7. You took too long.

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            8. Nameera says:

              Aaj kal thora busy hai na, Isliye.

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            9. Nameera says:

              Bas jab ek ya do minute ke liye apke posts pe argue karti hun. 😁 Everyone has this problem with me. I’m super slow at replying.

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            10. Or you’re selectively slow. πŸ˜‰

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            11. Nameera says:

              Nah. I’m totally unbiased when it comes down to being lazy. 😁

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            12. Is that supposed to make me feel better!!??

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            13. Nameera says:

              If that’s what you like, then yes!

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            14. That’s not what I like but I like to know what you meant.

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            15. Nameera says:

              I’m eternally lazy. It doesn’t have anything to do with people in my life.

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            16. I Know the feeling.
              I’m kinda like you.

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            17. Nameera says:

              Glad to know you understand. Most people don’t.

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            18. Only the lazy understand the lazy.

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            19. Nameera says:

              Kudos to that! 😁

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  2. Accidental Blogger says:

    If love is going to fade then why should we commit ?
    To get hurt later?πŸ™ƒ

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    1. My boy, love is just a chemical reaction. Commitment is something that transcends love. A promise to stick together even when it fades.

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      1. Accidental Blogger says:

        Not everyone is ready to stick together once love fades πŸ™‚

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        1. Then don’t do it.😊

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          1. Accidental Blogger says:

            Exactly

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  3. Nameera says:

    Nai hota commitment. 😐

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    1. Isme kaunsi nayi baat hai??
      Aapse surprises expect karna bhi bekar hai.😜

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      1. Nameera says:

        Aisa Kya? Surprises expect karlo, commitment nakko πŸ˜‚

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        1. Surprises expect karu? Chalo theek hai, intezaar hai surprise ki.πŸ˜„

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          1. Nameera says:

            Good. Keep waiting. Ek din surprise karke dikhaongi. πŸ˜‚

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            1. I hope wo short films hai.
              (Jo aapne bohot mahine pehle batayi thi)

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            2. Nameera says:

              Tumko Kya karna hai dekh ke? Personal hai. Not for strangers. πŸ˜›

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            3. Meko Kya karna hai wo tumko kyu batau? Boldiye na stranger?
              Who are you, ma’am?

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            4. Nameera says:

              I’m Nameera, a really nice person and you’re Bharath, a really ridiculous guy. Okay so, we’re quite close to being acquaintances now, just tell me why do you wana see them? πŸ˜‰

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            5. Maska lagao mat πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
              I was just curious.
              (I love nostalgia)

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  4. Nice one Bharath. Its indeed true that ‘you attract what you think’ and there comes the role of ‘positivity’. Staying optimistic helps not just with people but also circumstances. Enjoyed reading this piece, very motivating.

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    1. Thank you. (Both of you!?)
      I’m not an optimistic person, I am a realist. I’m attracted to negativity so that I can have a reality check every now and then.
      Thank you for reading.😊

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  5. jim- says:

    Absence makes the heart grow fonderβ€”or go wander. Find your happy spot.

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    1. Yeah! Distance always helps.πŸ˜ƒ

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  6. Jaya Singh says:

    Good thoughts poured here.

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    1. Thanks teacher.
      How’re you doing?

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      1. Jaya Singh says:

        Good. πŸ™ƒ

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