Love, o love. Love!


“And when you notice the serendipities when you’re in love….” she added and I was like “serendi what??”

Okay why do you have to use fancy words when you’re in love? Doesn’t “I’m happy” suffice?? I’m not a native English speaker and my vocabulary is abysmal. So, I was talking to someone I know about love and was accused of not knowing what love is. Who said I don’t know? I do. It’s a chemical reaction in your brain that’s fleeting before you know it.

Before you label me extremely pessimistic, take a moment and think. Why do you love? If you have a reason, it’s not love. If you don’t, you’re insane. If something doesn’t happen for a reason, it happens as a consequence and they always change.

My friend asked me to try writing about love and then she’ll believe I know what it is. This is what I came up with:

Love is unpredictable, like bird droppings from the sky
Love is loud, like dogs howling in the night
Love hurts, like when a corkball hits your eye
Love fades slowly, like hair dye
Love is everywhere, look for it, they say it’s blind

Tell me now. Tell me I can write about love and don’t crib about poor quality of this post, I just wrote it because I was bored.

Like I care about what you think.

(Isme tera ghata, mera kuch nahi jaata)

Delusional people.

357 Comments Add yours

  1. You asked why do I love. Its because I am proud we are alive together. Everything began from nothing. Yet here we are, alive. Its a miracle, a happy one. Thank you for sharing.

    Signed
    http://www.welovetheoldestparents.com

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  2. Cutemess says:

    Love is loud, like dogs howling in the night😂🤣
    Amazingly described!!!

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    1. As disturbing as it can be 😂😂

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  3. Priyanka says:

    Wow great work.. i also wrote something about self love.. https://lovingmuddles.wordpress.com/2020/09/19/love-yourself/ Kindly see if you have time🙏🏻

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  4. Omkar Patole says:

    I really respect and appreciate your feelings 👍.

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  5. semeliblog says:

    Well said..love can hit you unexpectedly and you can’t fight it. Love is an illusion…you cannot see it you can only feel it.

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  6. Peakspeak says:

    Chemical locha ❤😁👍

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      1. sandhyapise says:

        Insane in the sense that we need understand love from a different perspective! Maybe you had hearr break or breaks which makes love the evil in the story, but LOVE can be beautiful, NOT always.

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  7. Hope says:

    You’re an amazing blogger bro, your blogs are really good.

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  8. I always explained love to me was “caring for someone else more than myself” 🙂

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    1. Love is different to different people.

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  9. The pessimism you serve is absurdly satisfying 😛

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  10. Love happens when your hormones dope your intellect into delusional psychosis.

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  11. nnnnn says:

    Love this!!!

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  12. True. Love doesn’t need to be complicated. Fancy names, complex definition. When you’re in love, you’re just in love. Simple .

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  13. That’s Marvelous 💖✨👏👏

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  14. Shravistha says:

    Unique and different take it actually brings out what we ignore abt this feeling of love please check my work and like them n follow me if u like

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    1. Sure thing. Thanks. 🙂

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  15. Meg says:

    I love the movie Serendipity ❤️

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    1. I never watched it. 😬😬

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      1. Meg says:

        Haha! It’s romcom

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  16. Isme tera ghata, mera kuch nahi jaata — this made me laugh out loud. Awsm post.

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  17. Nawazish says:

    Wonderful work!!! I too had written about romanticization of love in my blog The Lightening Bug….do check it out when you have time!!🤗🤗

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  18. Sobia says:

    🤣🤣🤣 this is sooo good. I ll wait for the second version of this poem after u actually fall in love 👍🏻🌹

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    1. You think I haven’t?

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      1. Sobia says:

        Don’t think so brother… u should have been on the other side of the mirror then, where the delusion begins and reasoning ends.

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        1. Good luck with whatever.

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  19. Meghan Du says:

    I said the same thing to my friend, agree with you 100%!

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  20. Nabeela says:

    Lovely poem….

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  21. WildHeart says:

    Isme tera ghata, mera kuch nahi jaata 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Liked by 3 people

  22. aathmana02 says:

    I can’t LIKE and REPLY to your msgs at the same time as you do. So I am doing it now!!😅😅
    I know that you will get a lottt of notifications on the likes. You will be mad and that is what I want!!😅😂

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    1. I hate you😫
      Why did you have to like those comments? Why????

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      1. aathmana02 says:

        Haha! Looks like someone needs an asylum!😅😂🤣
        “I hate you😫”
        Awwww! Thank you👆

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        1. You’ll need it after I’m done with you. 😎

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          1. aathmana02 says:

            Never gonna happen
            me for a matter of fact, my mom works as a staff nurse in Mental health centre. I have asked for a cell specially for you!!

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            1. So generous of you! Not maybe people sacrifice their beds for others.

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            2. aathmana02 says:

              😑😶🙄
              Yaar!!! How I wish to punch you hard ! I might ask your sis’s help for that one!!😅😅

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            3. I’m right here come punch me.

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            4. aathmana02 says:

              Lockdown mein aaye tho, I’d have to spend the rest of my life in prison. I would then not be able to punch you again, na! So I am controlling it for now!
              But one day!! For sure! I am a time traveller, remember?

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            5. Make sure you choose the right time next time.

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            6. aathmana02 says:

              Any suggestions?😅

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            7. You’re welcome anytime. 😃

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            8. aathmana02 says:

              I would scare the shit out of you then!!
              With a white cloak..with two holes in the front!
              👻

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            9. You don’t have to do all of that to scare me. 😂😂

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            10. aathmana02 says:

              Hard skinned?

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            11. You? Yeah you sure are.

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            12. aathmana02 says:

              Nope. You make a small sound near me.. I will jump like in a trampoline!!
              Very very sensitive to sounds. And a scaredy cat!
              I can’t sleep without hearing the sound of the fan!😖😅😅😅

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            13. Now I know how to scare you. Please give me more tips.

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            14. aathmana02 says:

              Ohhhh I see. I can give you.. safe hai!!
              play with the clock in my room. It scares the shit out of me (conjuring effects)
              Cut the power of my room, at night… I would run!!
              Show me even pics of insects… I would vomit!🤮 Or you will find me in a cupboard
              Cats scare me!!

              *Yayyyy! I have filled a million comments on this post.
              Post a new one, we will transfer there!😅🤣😂

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            15. The conjuring one sounds interesting.
              And I can leave some cockroaches in your room and cupboard.

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            16. aathmana02 says:

              No you can’t!
              Pls don’t!
              You won’t, right?

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            17. I’ll think about it.

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            18. aathmana02 says:

              Ughhhh!🤯
              Anyway we are miles apart!
              So I am safe!😅😂
              You ain’t scared of anything?
              Tell me na! I have goons there

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            19. Okay I’m afraid of goons.

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            20. Abhi ke liye goons hi bas hai. Bhejo. 😂

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            21. aathmana02 says:

              Will you give them money on my behalf?
              Pls yaar. ☺️😋

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            22. Yeah I’ll pay them to kick my ass. Sure.

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            23. aathmana02 says:

              Thanks bhaiyya! How will I ever repay this?🤩🤩

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            24. Stay in the asylum. That’s enough. 😂

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            25. aathmana02 says:

              🤨😏I will stay at the asylum to treat you!
              Sure, why not

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            26. What else do you feel like doing? Since How long have you been feeling this way?

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            27. aathmana02 says:

              Shut up!!!! I am out

              Liked by 1 person

            28. aathmana02 says:

              That’s funny
              After an annoying conversation… All is well!😅😂

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  23. witasarmah says:

    👍🤭🤭🤣👍👍👏👏

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  24. aathmana02 says:

    Aur aapke comment section padhkar, Paagal ho gayi hoon

    i Always spend so much time to read your comment section! Bahut interesting hai yaar!😃

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    1. Hahaha! Aap bhi add karo kuch naya.

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      1. aathmana02 says:

        Mein try karti hoon Lekin nothing much comes to my mind. You have any?

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        1. Aapke taraf sè sochu me?hadd hai! 😂

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          1. aathmana02 says:

            Seriously?😅😅

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            1. Han seriously 😎

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            2. aathmana02 says:

              Tho boliye!.😎😎
              Anyway situation here is pretty bad, jokes might help me!!
              Corona is air borne now!! Ha that makes everything even more cool!😅

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            3. Hahah I’m sure I’m gonna get it kyu ki I’m working now. 🤣🤣

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            4. aathmana02 says:

              Oh sorry! Looks like lockdown mein bhi work ko koi difference nahi he! Sab kuch same to same!!
              Teek hai ji. I think you are too busy. I am disturbing you so much now, huh?!😅😂 I am good at that!

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            5. I’m on leave today. I’m sick. 🤣🤣

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            6. aathmana02 says:

              Sick? Work from home mein bhi sick excuse?😂😅

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            7. Work from home? O hello! I started going to office from June. I wish I could work from home.

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            8. aathmana02 says:

              Sorry! Main aapke dard mein namak dala kya?
              My bro has the same reaction
              But it’s lockdown here again
              High possibility of a community spread

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            9. Community spread is already happening as we know it. Aapne kuch nai kiya, sorry mat bolo aap.

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            10. aathmana02 says:

              Ha! That was very funny!🤐😏
              (Just reconfirming: it was meant to be funny right?)😅
              I am very bad at interpretation!

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            11. Of course it was all in good humour 😂

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            12. aathmana02 says:

              Sorry… the first reply of this msg was a Wrong one!!
              I had another poor interpretation!!😋
              Thiruvananthapuram in Kerala, where I reside, here the situation is getting worse as we cannot trace the source of the index patient, let alone all others!

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            13. What?? I heard that Kerala handled the crisis pretty well.

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            14. aathmana02 says:

              Kerala did and is still doing a pretty job, but ever since the NRIs landed the problems worsened. And the unlock did too. Somehow a spread occured. But thankfully the number of people who are recovering is a stable amount till now. 100-200 people a day is recovering.
              But as my place, TVM is under more risk as we can’t find the source anymore..meaning that a super spread is likely to occur.

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            15. Okay so now we’re back to square one? I also read that bubonic plague is back.
              We’re doomed. 😂😂

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            16. aathmana02 says:

              Yeah! Home sweet home!!!
              I miss a lot yaar!! The tea stall near the library!! I miss that a lot!
              The canteen wala small talks!
              Looks like soon we are all going to be claustrophobic!
              Except you ofcourse.. you have work to go, remember?
              By the way, you might be at work, na?
              Then focus… Your boss will curse the whole WordPress if not!😅

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            17. I was really comfortable being home, alone in my room during the quarantine. It made me realise I was living a lie all my life. I used to think I enjoyed being with people but in reality, I didn’t. Now I have to deal with life and people again and it’s making me anxious.
              But yeah, what you just told me brings back memories. I miss my college and friends.

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            18. aathmana02 says:

              Arey! My bro says that he will be more than happy if he gets to be at home even for a year! But then he has to go to work too!
              I can’t! I dont want to sit in my home.
              Being confined to my rooms makes me feel like.. ugghhhhh
              We are just opposites I presume!!!!
              What’s the fun sitting in one room?
              But I prefer to be alone always. That’s one strange thing. I like to socialize but solace is even better!

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            19. I enjoy my time alone. I’m kind of extreme in this case; when I’m out and about, I don’t come back home for long hours and sometimes days, when I’m home, I don’t like going out.

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            20. aathmana02 says:

              Yeah I know that!!😅 It happens with me sometimes too.

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            21. Okay at least we have this in common.

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            22. aathmana02 says:

              Ah! Yep. But I dont come late to home! You can never come late as long as you stay with you AMMA!😅

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            23. Haha! I’m prepare myself for the scolding.
              But they got used to it because I came home late at nights during weekends before this pandemic.

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            24. aathmana02 says:

              I can never be prepared for the scolding!
              My Amma says my brain! Papa is cool. He saves me .. cuz I frequently same him too😅

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            25. How do you save papa??

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            26. aathmana02 says:

              Ah that’s a good q.
              I save papa from talks with Amma. If papa talks about his school days, then Amma will ask his first love, which irks both of them cuz that was a bad love story. Amma and papa had love marriage, na? So.. she is too uncool for such conversations.

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            27. Haha I can imagine the awkwardness of that situation.

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            28. aathmana02 says:

              😂it really is

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            29. So daughter to the rescue. 😂😂

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            30. aathmana02 says:

              Of course! Always! I am the fight resolver here!

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            31. I can’t believe this. 😂

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            32. I mean, you? You resolve conflicts? 🤣🤣🤣

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            33. aathmana02 says:

              🤨😒😛
              I am good at that becuz I am good at having a fight too!😜

              Liked by 1 person

            34. Now I know. 😂😂

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            35. aathmana02 says:

              Teek hai! I pity your sister!😅🤣😂

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            36. aathmana02 says:

              😅oh you know why!

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            37. What’s your version?

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            38. aathmana02 says:

              Meri version aapke behen se koi pharak nai hai! Pucho usse!😅😄

              Liked by 1 person

            39. I don’t want to wake her up. 😂😂

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            40. aathmana02 says:

              She isn’t awake now? 9:00am? Ha of course she is tired of you!

              Liked by 1 person

            41. I’m tired of the world 😒

              Liked by 1 person

            42. aathmana02 says:

              Arey! Look at that “serious” expressions…
              Lol!

              Liked by 1 person

            43. It’s a sad face.

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            44. aathmana02 says:

              Woh serious emoji tho hai. Seriously sad!

              Liked by 1 person

            45. Sad hai. Serious nhi.

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            46. aathmana02 says:

              Teek hai bhaiyya. Feeling too sleepy to argue.
              Kal raath shooting tha. Bahot tired and this webinars are draining. I did one awkward thing. I switched on the mic and said to my friend, “kya boring class hai”. But my fan me sound ke karan aur poor net ke karan no one heard anything clearly!😥😅😂

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            47. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
              You can’t even mess up right. Jao sojao fir.

              Liked by 1 person

            48. aathmana02 says:

              Sleep? Seriously? That ain’t gonna happen
              Corona is having pity on all of us now!

              Liked by 1 person

            49. aathmana02 says:

              By the way.. look at your followers!😅 Lakhs?
              Kabhi kabhi blog promotion bhi karo na?!😅😂🤣 Aur meri posts mein bhi ek LIKE option hai!😅😅😅😅😂🤣🤣🤣

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            50. Aapke posts padhta hu aur like bhi karta me. Kabhi dekha karo.
              And I don’t want to promote my blog. 😂

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            51. aathmana02 says:

              Not your own blog dumpo!
              Nahi! Aap sirf ek or do posts mein like karte he.
              Acha pls dont like now.. it feels like I am begging for it and not earning it!😅😅😂

              Liked by 1 person

            52. I didn’t miss any. 🙄
              You’re one of the few people I talk to, there’s no chance I missed your posts.
              Whose blog then? Yours?

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            53. aathmana02 says:

              Idk!😄😃😄😁
              Dont make me say that yaar! It feels soooooooooooooooooo awkward!

              Liked by 1 person

            54. Acha theek hai😂😂😂
              I take that dumbo as a compliment btw.

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            55. aathmana02 says:

              Yeah, anyway it suits you much better!😅😂

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            56. Okay whatever 😂

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            57. aathmana02 says:

              😄😂you agree?!

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            58. I’m indifferent

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            59. aathmana02 says:

              Ji work nahi hai? Free? 😅 You are free most of the time! Lazy!! Boss is not around, huh?

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            60. I’m sick. I’m home.

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            61. aathmana02 says:

              Seriously? Or your usual joke?

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            62. I’m serious.

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            63. aathmana02 says:

              And you are wasting time txting me? Just go take some rest!
              Bilkul paagal hai Aap! Bilkul!
              Your emoji less txts are soo confusing thats why I asked.
              Take care!!👍

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            64. I am resting, that’s why I’m texting. 😂
              I can’t sleep during the day.
              You too, take care.

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            65. aathmana02 says:

              Me too! I can’t sleep during day and I sleep too late but wake up early. I dont keep alarms even!!!😅
              People say I am soooo strange!!
              *Similar fact no2

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            66. Even I never needed an alarm. No matter what time I sleep, I wake up at 5:30. 😎

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            67. aathmana02 says:

              5:30 am is late! How do you manage to get all things done then?

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            68. How’s waking up at 5:30 am late?

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            69. aathmana02 says:

              Time flies too quickly!
              Waking at 5 is perfect!

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            70. 5:30 is fine. Works for me.

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            71. aathmana02 says:

              Yeah of course! Then on Sundays?

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            72. Even on sundays. 😂

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            73. aathmana02 says:

              What? Same here too! My amma is just the opposite.
              On her leave days, we will see her by 12 pm😅😂
              Waking at morning has many advantages. Can roast many!!!(😂)

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            74. Sometimes it’s a curse. When you’re the only one awake, everyone else is asleep and you’re hungry!

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            75. aathmana02 says:

              Exactly!!!!
              Hunger!!! I even ate coconut last time as I didn’t find anything else!😅😂

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            76. I ate biscuits. 😄

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            77. aathmana02 says:

              Biscuits nahi tha thab!
              So coconut!
              I always keep chocolates by me these days.
              So Amma wakes up at 1pm!😅😂

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            78. Coconut paas rakhke sote??

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            79. aathmana02 says:

              Nice one!!😂
              Fridge mein rakhte hai dumbo!

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            80. Fridge ke paas sote ho??

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            81. aathmana02 says:

              Yaar! Just get the hell out of here!😅😂🤣

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            82. Okay. I’m out. 😂

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            83. aathmana02 says:

              😂🤣bilkul paagal hai na!
              I would surely ask my amma to have a bed for you!
              Aur iss Baar woh mat kehna ki, “meri bed aapko diya he” wala bakwaas!
              I am perfectly good. Unlike you

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            84. I don’t know if you’re perfect or good.
              But I’m pretty sure you’re not like me. Why the hell of you think of the asylum all the time? You okay?

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            85. aathmana02 says:

              I care for you..that’s why I think of the asylum!!.😎

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            86. Yeah I know you care for me and want me to come home. But sister, asylum isn’t our home. Wake up!

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            87. aathmana02 says:

              Ha ha ha!
              You are right… you are seriously sick

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            88. I am right. I know. 😂

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            89. aathmana02 says:

              You know!!!??
              Most mentally unstable people don’t agree that!

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            90. Now I know why you kept denying.

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            91. aathmana02 says:

              మీరు పిచ్చి గాడిద

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            92. Omg! Okay I give up. 😂😂

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            93. aathmana02 says:

              Yayyyy!! Finally gotcha!

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            94. I don’t wanna go there. 😂

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            95. aathmana02 says:

              😂 I will pray for you! Get well soon!
              From your mental illness!😂

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            96. aathmana02 says:

              You ain’t bad at that either!

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            97. I’ll believe it now that you said it.

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            98. aathmana02 says:

              You are such a … Ughhh!!!!😅

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            99. aathmana02 says:

              I knew that you’d say that!😏

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            100. You happen to know everything

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            101. aathmana02 says:

              Anyone could know that one! You are veryyyyyyyyyy good at sarcasm!

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            102. Judging by what just happened, the only thing I’m good at is being predictable.
              (Or you’re someone who can see future)

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            103. aathmana02 says:

              Good guess!
              (Hush dont tell anyone.. I am not an ordinary being. I am from the future!! A curious time-traveller! Shush!!!)

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            104. You chose a wrong timeline to enter, traveller.

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            105. aathmana02 says:

              Yeah true!🤣

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  25. Ah the good old question about the meaning and purpose of love. There have been numerous attempts at answering this, but absolutely no one ever has compared love to bird droppings before.. Well done

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    1. Here you are, chemical girl. Thank you. 😂

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  26. aathmana02 says:

    So raw bro! (*Rhymes huh?!)
    A completely different perspective on love! Gotta agree!😃😄😁

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    1. You agreed??! It’s a miracle. 🥺

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      1. aathmana02 says:

        Why do you say that?🤔 Of course I agreed!

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        1. You don’t always agree. You have something contradictory every time.

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          1. aathmana02 says:

            Ha! Now you know that I dont!
            By the way… When did I disagree with you??
            😅I was being sarcastic!
            And yeah.. I have a very bad sense of humour!😅😂

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            1. You disagreed on a few things a few times before. It doesn’t bother me, you make things interesting. Don’t worry about your sarcasm.

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            2. aathmana02 says:

              I might have been really annoying then!!😅
              My papa have begged me a million times to just think ten times before saying a “joke” because most of the times, it ends up in a fight! 😅 Especially with conservative aunties!! Judgemental ones!! You know what I mean!?

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            3. Arey no you aren’t annoying. You make things really interesting and spice them up. It’s fun having a banter with you. Haha! What did you say to aunties?

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            4. aathmana02 says:

              You should probably ask why did I “not “say to them!!
              I am rebellious and carefree. That’s my nature. And they are too irritated at that!! Most of the times!!
              Sometimes kehte hai ki, I should sit quietly and I am an orator and they say that is not something to be appreciated kyunki that will someday make me “single forever”
              All they care for a girl, right from their birth is marriage and dowry!
              Sharam aati hai sometimes!!!

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            5. I agree with you on this. Mera bhi iss baare me behes hoti hai when it comes to women. I have strong views and I oppose people who judge women who smoke and drink. I bash women to in some matters. 😂

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  27. Anushk@ says:

    You know what’s the best part of this post?
    That short poem.!
    That’s called Bharath’s touch.!!
    Or should I say?
    Bharath catches the right nerve😜

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    1. Haha I can catch the nerve and twist it too. 😂😂

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  28. “Love fades slowly like hair dye” is what I liked the most.

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    1. Thanks Rashmi 🙂

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  29. Arushi says:

    Great post, wonderful poem. 👏👏
    Got me thinking hard and as far as I could conclude, for me, love is freedom. To love someone is to set that person free.

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    1. I heard that too.
      If you love someone, set them free but nobody says “they’ll leave anyway so don’t complain”

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      1. Arushi says:

        I agree with you and maybe that is because nobody actually freed them from the expectation of staying.

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        1. Expect or don’t, people leave.

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          1. Arushi says:

            True, but there are also those who stay. I think love can bring you together but not the sole reason to hold you together.

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            1. Even vengeance brings people together. Love is fickle.

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            2. Arushi says:

              Yes it does but for different a purpose. People are fickle.

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            3. I’d side with you on this one.

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            4. Arushi says:

              😊. By the way, amazing blog! Loved your posts, had a great time reading those. Loved your train of thoughts.💛😊

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            5. Hey thanks! Gimme time to read yours. Deal?

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            6. Arushi says:

              Hahaha. Not much there to read but deal.

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            7. Oh shush! Lemme be the judge of that.

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            8. Arushi says:

              🙏🙏😁😁

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            9. And I see a hint of darkness in you.

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            10. Arushi says:

              We all have it in us. Its just about when it overpowers.

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            11. Arushi says:

              The darkness? I sense it in you too. Maybe a few hard experiences.

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            12. Everyone has hard times.

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  30. Lia says:

    I love this poem, it brings me glee; ’tis not absurd, ’tis logic, surely. For a poem as well-constructed and honest is loved, logically. Thus my love has purpose, see.

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    1. Wow. This comment is a post in itself.

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  31. Harsh says:

    I don’t think there’s anything called “love”.

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    1. So don’t I brother.

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  32. Chetna says:

    Whoa!! Hilarious and honest ,it is!
    I also think sometimes that why I AM HAPPY is taken to be an understatement?
    Ykw, yesterday when you asked me I was just looking for the thing..that we always have a reason to love! Otherwise it’s a more like a consequence .
    Damn it!! I have never read such a poem describing love. it seems more relatable than that “ghanti bajne vale stuff”😅😅

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    1. Hai na? Being happy is a bliss. Not many people are happy and when you are, freaking say it. You gave it a thought? Splendid. Do you realise that we always have a reason to love something?
      Ghanti Kya? 😬

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      1. Chetna says:

        Umm…ykw whenever I ponder upon why do I love anyone? I find me being selfish! For instance, I love my friends coz they are there whenever I need them. I can relate with them. I can find the similarities and if there are differences ,there is a mutual understanding for that. So, in a nutshell I find comfort being with them. That’s why I like their company. And for every person I love ,I find answers which are related to ME!! Love has gotta be selfless? Am I really a selfish? Are we all selfish ?
        Actually, in some Indian movies there is a saying that , agar aapke dil me kisi ko dekhkr ghanti bajti hai to it means ki you love that person. Nonsense right!! I never could relate with it😅😁

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        1. We’re all selfish Chetna, there’s nothing wrong in admitting it. Think of it as a survival instinct, self sustenance keliye. We have to have people who match our wavelength.
          Wo ghanti na lust hota. 🤣🤣

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          1. Chetna says:

            Then does love happen for selfish reasons??
            Yeah!😝

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            1. Of course it does. Nobody admits but deep down, they know it’s true.

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  33. Kamya Seervi says:

    😂 Best description of love I’ve ever read…

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    1. Hahaha what’s yours?

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      1. Kamya Seervi says:

        I don’t know have any for now.

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      2. Kamya Seervi says:

        I’m too young to think about this.

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        1. Says who? My four year old cousin says she loves her teddy bear. Is she too young to say it or think about it?

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          1. Kamya Seervi says:

            I’m sorry! I said it wrong. You’re completely right and I agree with you.

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            1. Oh c’mon don’t be sorry now.
              I Shouldn’t have said that either.

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            2. Kamya Seervi says:

              No, off course what I said was wrong, but I meant something else.
              Love is usually feeded into our minds as something particular, which isn’t right, and I realized that I had restricted my thoughts to that.
              It’s good you said that, in order to make me realize that I wasn’t being open enough.
              I love having such conversations, because there’s always something to learn from them.

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            3. I’m proud of you for saying this and being open to discussions. 🙂

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            4. Kamya Seervi says:

              That makes me feel so good that you’re proud of me! 😄 I’ll try to keep you proud always. Thank you! 😊😊

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            5. You don’t even have to try. 🙂

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            6. Kamya Seervi says:

              😊😊😊

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  34. Tisha says:

    This was the exact meaning! And humorous ofc! After all whose work it is! Well written! (mera ghata nhi krwana😂)

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    1. Haha! I’m glad you find it funny.
      (Kyu?)

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      1. Tisha says:

        I meant your way of writing is such that it adds a touch of humour to everything. And I found it funny, because the best way to keep the pain away from something that hurts you, is to laugh at it.

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        1. That’s what I do. I laugh at my life. 😂

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          1. Tisha says:

            Good job! 😂 I have started doing that too.

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            1. Ah! But you’re gonna be a doc.

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            2. Tisha says:

              So what?? 🤔

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            3. Just reminding you.
              Would you treat me for free?

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            4. Tisha says:

              Sure! In fact that’s my goal. I just want to work for some years till I earn enough to buy a house for my parents and fulfill all their needs. After that I’ll start a charity hospital of my own, where anyone can have free treatment. If someone wishes to pay, they may do so, but if someone can’t, they don’t have to. And for friends, ofc it’ll be free😂

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            5. Can I be your friend? Please??
              (I don’t wanna pay)

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            6. Tisha says:

              😂 Friends? Fine. But if I say, you’ll have to pay, then I guess you won’t want to be a friend? 🤔

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            7. My best friend is already a General Surgeon so I’ll get my free service from him. I can pay when you treat me. 😬

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            8. Tisha says:

              That’s great! We can be friends! And you won’t have to pay as well😂

              Liked by 1 person

            9. Great!! Cheers!

              Liked by 1 person

            10. Tisha says:

              But maybe, you can buy me some snacks instead. 😉😂

              Liked by 1 person

            11. How about fried and a burger? You up?

              Liked by 1 person

            12. Let’s go then.
              McD or Burger King?

              Liked by 1 person

            13. Tisha says:

              In the time of Corona? 😂

              Liked by 1 person

            14. Sab khulgaya hai. I’ll get it anyway. 😂

              Liked by 1 person

            15. Tisha says:

              Lucky! I’ll have to manage mine. 😂 (I’m making a pizza tomorrow, wanna have?)

              Liked by 1 person

            16. Oh please! Gimme !!Gimme!!!

              Liked by 1 person

            17. Tisha says:

              And how? 😂

              Liked by 1 person

            18. I don’t know. Post a picture and write about it maybe? 😂😂

              Liked by 1 person

            19. Tisha says:

              😂😂

              Liked by 1 person

            20. Tisha says:

              What a great idea! (Sarcasm 100) 😂

              Liked by 1 person

            21. Fine. Finish it alone.

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            22. Tisha says:

              Ay ay captain!

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            23. Back to work, private!

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  35. 😀 😀 Interesting!

    But why is it not love, if there is a reason? What if the reason in itself is true and genuine? Also, why is it always described as painful and sad? Can’t it be just simple and happy? 🤔

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    1. Why is it love if there isn’t a reason??? Truth depends on people and perspective, my truth isn’t your truth. Love and pain are inseparable because love has certain demands to be fulfilled.

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      1. 😀 I agree. It does depends on people and their perspective. I think, one can like a person for a reason. And as the love grows, it can go beyond the reason or even if the reason isn’t valid anymore. Yes! Love and pain are inseparable. So is Life. But Love does have less painful and happy aspects as well right 🙂

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        1. Love that grows turns into dependence and possibly addiction. Love without a reason is hazardous.
          Hahaha I agree with the last line.

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          1. Why does it have to be a dependence or addiction 😀 You can love giving enough space for eachother. Glad you agreed to atleast one point from all that rambling 😂

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            1. If you observe, that’s what you’ll find. Space is another human need, you see? We fulfill each other’s needs. That’s how things work.
              Hahaha! Okay what else do you want me to agree to?

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            2. Exactly! fulfilling each other’s needs and understanding some demands can’t be met. These need not cause pain though.

              😀😀 Considering your comments, you agreeing to one point itself seems like an achievement, Bharath 😅. Let’s end this at what you said. It’s all a matter of perspective 🙂

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            3. I agree with the last line again. Thank you and sorry. 🙂

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            4. Hey! Why sorry? It was a great discussion. Really enjoyed it.

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            5. I’m sorry for any hurtful or disrespectful comment and I’m glad you enjoyed it.

              Liked by 1 person

            6. How rude are you?! I cannot forgive you! I will never forgive youuuuu!

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            7. Why in the hell did you come back to this? 😂

              Like

            8. Someone liked it 😂

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            9. This Bharath guy! Just read his comments. Ayyyooo 🤦🏻‍♀️

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            10. What? What did I do?

              Like

            11. Po🤦🏻‍♂️

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  36. Nour R. says:

    I mean you can’t really write about love because it’s different for each person-never mind the many many different kinds of love. For example, for me love is quiet & serene (not the romantic one at least) and it isn’t everywhere; rather, you’ve to pinpoint it from a dozen things to look at. The best description I could give is that love is a mirror, as in, each reflection is different depending on who’s looking at it

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    1. This’s a nice way of putting it.
      Like in mirrors song by Justin Timberlake?

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      1. Nour R. says:

        Never heard it so idk 😂

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        1. Listen to it. It has great lyrics and video.

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  37. Anisha says:

    You’ve made me wonder if something called ‘love’ actually exists, even if it’s a chemical reaction. 😂

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    1. What do you think? Does it exist?

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      1. Anisha says:

        I missed this comment and someone has liked it again.

        I’d prefer to believe it exists!

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        1. Wow. How long has it been? 😂😂
          Okay thank you for noticing.

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          1. Anisha says:

            😂 just a month, na?

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            1. Meko yaad bhi nahi tha ye 😂

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            2. Anisha says:

              What does this mean? 😅

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            3. I don’t remember this comment.

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            4. Anisha says:

              Oh okay. I don’t understand Hindi, Bharath!

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            5. What’s your native language?

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            6. Anisha says:

              Tamil! I went for Hindi tuitions during school and the teacher died in a week. 😬 My relationship with Hindi remains broken since then.

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            7. Anisha says:

              Vanakkam! ☺

              Do you understand Tamil?

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            8. My dad is Tamilian. 🙂

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            9. Anisha says:

              Great! My dad is Malayali. 🙂

              Liked by 1 person

            10. Ahha! So you speak Tamil and Malayalam.

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            11. Anisha says:

              Not so fluent with Malayalam. But, I can speak quite decently.

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            12. I can’t speak Tamil though. I understand a little but can’t speak.

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            13. Anisha says:

              I believe interest is what matters to learn a language. My dad can speak 7 languages including Hindi. I’m so lazy to acquire it from him. 😅

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            14. Wow! Seven?? How???

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            15. Anisha says:

              He stayed in North India for most part of his work, and so got used to the regional languages there – Punjabi and Haryanvi. He says they’re quite similar.

              Liked by 1 person

            16. Ah! That’s awesome.

              Liked by 1 person

            17. Anisha says:

              My comment goes missing. Did it reach you?

              Liked by 1 person

            18. Just restored it from spam

              Liked by 1 person

            19. Anisha says:

              Wondering how WordPress classifies spam!

              Liked by 1 person

            20. Works in mysterious ways.

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  38. Aishwarya says:

    Sooo good hahah! Who must’ve found the word lol!

    Liked by 6 people

    1. Tell me if you know. I gotta talk to him.

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  39. Nathi says:

    Love is the reason, the consequence and the change, brother.

    Liked by 6 people

    1. Love is hormonal, sister. 😂

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      1. Nathi says:

        Agree! But brother, even anger can be said as hormonal. What we feel is either influenced or influences our hormones.

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        1. Point noted, sister.

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  40. HappySoul says:

    Such a different , straight forward post on love ! Loved it!

    The “consequence “ line is good !

    Liked by 6 people

    1. Thanks happy! 😄

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  41. Omg, Bharaaaaath. Guess what? The notification thing works! 😀 And lol, I have never read anything like this about love. I am laughing so hard. I can’t stop laughing!

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    1. Hahaha I know it works.
      Shwetaaaaaaa! Keep laughing. 😀

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      1. 😀 I will. The day is just beginning. How about you?

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        1. Ready for work already. Gonna chill for an hour before I leave. 😬 what’s your morning like?

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          1. Same here! I have got an half an hour to write and edit!

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            1. You don’t wanna chill??

              Liked by 1 person

            2. Duties come first. 😛

              Liked by 1 person

            3. Okay. Fine. I’ll shut up. 😂

              Liked by 1 person

            4. 😛 I am great when it comes to multi-tasking 😉

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            5. Think again 🤣🤣

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