Just a thought.


Sex was primarily a survival and defence mechanism. A pleasure that is pain, romanticised. Copulation was a tool to reproduce without which a species would perish. Somehow we got it under our control; we tracked and understood cycles.

Sex was a necessity. Today, it has turned into a need. Human mind and consciousness attached emotions to it, thatโ€™s how agony turned into gratification.

We choose to deny but everybody seeks pleasure in pain. How they do differ in ways.

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  1. Arushi says:

    I agree to this for some extent but not all. Great that you put it out there.

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    1. Tell me where you donโ€™t so I know better.

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      1. Arushi says:

        Well, for one, i don’t think sex is only a necessity for reproducing. Though, i agree one of the main reason is this only but it is also necessary for people to co exist together. And having sex doesn’t pain, but only if you are not doing it the wrong way ofcourse. So you need not seek pleasure in pain.
        But ofcourse, i understand your point as well and it is valid in many walks of life but not all.

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        1. Well thank you, Arushi. Donโ€™t shy away from expressing your opinions. ๐Ÿ™‚

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          1. Arushi says:

            I will keep that in mind๐Ÿ˜

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  2. Shravistha says:

    Ah something to think about

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  3. Mermaid says:

    I LOVE THIS

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    1. Thank you so much. It means a lot. ๐Ÿ˜›

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  4. Look at the history of mankind, we have turned everything that was a necessity into something that’s driven mostly by greed.

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    1. Money, Yโ€™know. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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      1. Yep and greed. The quest for more!

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  5. Lia says:

    I love that you open these important discussions. You rock. :)) I wrote a quick post in response haha. Hope you won’t mind. :)) ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ™

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    1. Thank you so much! ๐Ÿคฉ

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      1. Lia says:

        Yay. Thanks for your kind response. :))))) ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ™Œ

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  6. dessertflower5 says:

    Hahhah a good take. Well man is a animal afterall. Poor modern creature can’t different between love and lust. How crazy the most intellectual species want nothing but estacy of mating. What a irony.

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    1. Deprivation, ignorance, excess and greed. These are to blame.

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      1. dessertflower5 says:

        These are emotions and feeling. I only culprits are the minds of the beast that can’t control.

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  7. keshy says:

    Sex is mostly done out of lust now

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    1. I wonโ€™t deny. But there is no sex without lust either.

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      1. keshy says:

        Hmm, I’m not sure about that too ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜… since there are some circumstances where some of them are just forced. I don’t know a real story when both engaged in sex without lust during the intercourse though, but I have certainly seen some people who are forced mostly one-sidedly disliking the intercourse while doing it

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        1. Most of these happen as a result of blackmail but the most common case can be marital rape. ๐Ÿ˜

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          1. keshy says:

            Yep! Thats what I first thought hehe

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  8. vaniheart says:

    It happens with everything you can possibly think of
    “Once a necessity now a need” maybe due to greed

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    1. We have always been greedy, Vani.

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  9. Harsh says:

    The world has advanced but, on the wrong path now.

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    1. We never had a path maybe

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