Broken.


A fallen man struggles to get back on his feet; That’s what emotional trauma does. Why is it so hard? Why can’t he be what he once was?

A broken man builds himself on his miseries and sometimes, misery is company.

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  1. aathmana02 says:

    unfortunately misery is all we got during some hard times…no choices.. so we go with the one we have.. helplessly!
    who am i saying this to?😅😏🤭

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  2. sandhyapise says:

    This is so relatable! I have felt this in life now, see the wounds will be healed but the scares will remain!

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  3. To be fair, we all are a bit broken in one way or another. It could be the slightest thing and still be a sign of brokenness. Here is my advice to the broken man and to any other broken person out there, life happened and that does happen at times. The way out is to actively work on improvements. We need to be purposeful about bettering ourselves. Also important is to know the Lord. A lot will be fixed from a relationship with God. God is our creator and he knows how to fix us when we become broken. A lot of people have said that their lives have improved since building a relationship with God.

    I will leave anyone interested with this Bible verse;
    Psalm 34:18
    “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit”.

    If you need further tips on how to build a relationship with God, I have a post on it here: https://christcenteredruminations.wordpress.com/2018/08/29/how-to-build-a-relationship-with-god/

    God bless you. 🙂

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    1. Thanks for taking time to type all of this buddy. I hope god saves those people being bombed and killed in the middle easy soon.
      Have a great day and yeah, may you be blessed too. 🙂

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  4. See I am still up, I read your post and it’s stunning.

    You will find me there as soon as I wake up in morning.
    P.S-I wake up after 10

    Good night student.
    Results will be out soon😅

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    1. After ten?? 🤣🤣🤣

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  5. Nawazish says:

    I’ll charge minimal fee! But I won’t give free treatment.
    I plan to take some very serious field for PG so I wouldnt want my people to come for treatment

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    1. Ahan! I’ll go to my friend then. He wouldn’t charge. I’m kanjoos.

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      1. Nawazish says:

        Go go! Kanjoos vyakti!🤣🤣

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        1. Han me jaara. Bade aaye paise lene. 😂

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          1. Nawazish says:

            Haha! Ilaaj karana paise nahi dene but!🤣🤣

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            1. Ab gaya hi samjho.

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            2. Nawazish says:

              But you know I can treat you free because for getting treatment from me you’ll have to come to Mumbai and that will cost you enough. So you want to be charged!! Done!🤣🤣

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            3. If I ever come to Mumbai and fall sick, I’ll come to you. When you ask for money after treatment, I’ll say “look! A flying saucer!” And when you look away, I’ll run.

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            4. Nawazish says:

              Sure! No need to run but I told you already, you would have wasted enough money to come to mumbai in travelling. Also, you’ll gift me a prada or gucci glasses, so I would spare you cost of treatment

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            5. Oh you still remember that. 😂

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            6. Nawazish says:

              Yes..I happen to remember most unexpected things!!🤣🤣

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            7. Me gaya ab. 🤣🤣
              Good night!

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            8. Nawazish says:

              Good night!

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  6. Nawazish says:

    Hey brother, I tagged you for a schoolday challenge initiated by Tisha from Brainessays. Check out my latest post for more details named as SchoolDay Challenge

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    1. Ahh! I have her post pending and now the second nomination. I was working on it and I’ll have to do two now. 😅

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      1. Nawazish says:

        Mine was also pending for long! I did it finally. You too do it!! All the best!🤣😁😁

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          1. Nawazish says:

            You’ll write only one story. That I trust you for!! You’ll just say we both tagged you!!😁😁

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            1. Hahaha any other predictions???

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            2. Nawazish says:

              Nah just one for now! You are unpredictable and since now I have said that you could make up 2. Not sure though

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            3. I remember yo saying I’m predictable.

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            4. Nawazish says:

              Your retorts are predictable! But habits are not may be! You too act on whims sometimes!

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            5. Nawazish says:

              You always act on whims? OMG I found my twin brother then!🤣🤣
              Acting on whims brings trouble too!!🤣🤣

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            6. Oh I’ve fucked my entire life up acting on whims. 😂

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            7. Nawazish says:

              🤣🤣🤣

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            8. Ah it’s funny to you 😂😂

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            9. Nawazish says:

              It won’t be that bad!! I turned out fine!!🤣🤣

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            10. You don’t know me yet 😂

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            11. Nawazish says:

              I don’t actually!!🤣🤣 Let’s hope for the good turn of events for you! Fingers crossed!!👍👍

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            12. I crossed everything. I hope hope works. 😅

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            13. Nawazish says:

              Me too!😁😁

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            14. You’re the optimist here 😂

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            15. Nawazish says:

              Yes for a change!🤣🤣 but I really hope events turn for you and you get a job you are happy with!!🤗🤗

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            16. I hope you open a clinic and treat me for free 😃

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            17. Nawazish says:

              I won’t treat you for free!🤣🤣
              I wouldnt want anyone I know get severely ill to come to me, on a serious note!

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            18. You’ll charge me too much?
              Why?

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  7. Harsh says:

    A broken man doesn’t build himself. He just walks with the brokenness.

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    1. He has to pick himself up first.

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      1. Harsh says:

        He does that and he doesn’t even know it.

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        1. He doesn’t have to, brother.

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          1. Harsh says:

            He still consciously/unconsciously does.

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  8. Oh this makes me smile.

    Meko laga Kal mene faltu ka lecture de Diya tumhe.

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    1. Koi lecture faltu me jaane nai dete

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      1. Yaa now I’ll keep this in mind.

        And yaa I’ll also remember you called for it. You wanted class to be a little longer😂
        Bear with lecture now😂😂

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        1. Of course who can miss Rashmi ma’am’s class???

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          1. Haha, thank you for this!

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          2. Hey Bharath. Listen up.
            Did you start working on Tisha’s award post?

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            1. I am. It’s about school memories and I don’t know what to write. 😂

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            2. I can change your homework if you want to

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            3. Aha? What do you have for me !?

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            4. I will be doing an award post soon..

              You are nominated in advance.
              I just read it’s questions, they are fun..
              There are 2 in queue

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            5. Hahah! You have 2 waiting in line? I wanna read your answers now. Thanks for the advance. I’m up.

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            6. I’ll write them by evening maybe.

              Then I’ll wait for yours.
              I am excited already to read yours😂

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            7. Evening is a long time. Why not now??

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            8. I am up for my siasta..

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            9. Arey yaar Matlab mene sone ka try Kiya. Par I couldn’t.
              Anyways now I’ll write it down.
              See you soon!

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  9. Honestly speaking sometimes I just don’t know what to comment.

    Look at the way people comment on your blog and I am like I did not even think that way.
    So you along with people who comment help me widen my thoughts.

    Just a thanks to you and your comment box.
    It’s entertaining as well.

    Good afternoon Bharath!

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    1. You being here says more than what you express, Rashmi. I couldn’t ask for more.
      Thank you!!

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      1. It’s so sweet of you to say this Bharath!

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        1. It’s true.
          Good afternoon! How’re you?

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          1. I am all good Bharath, thank you.
            It’s raining herein.

            How you doing today?

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            1. I could use some rain here.
              I’m fine, back to work as usual.

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            2. You definitely can.

              Bharath after reading your comments section today, I am not going to give you any Gyan on hope and optimism..😅

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            3. Haha why’s that? You can still try. 😅

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            4. No. I won’t now😂

              Not that I give up on hope, but now that I understand you’re just a little different, your thoughts are different.
              Upto and unless you love and enjoy life, there’s nothing more I wanna say.

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            5. I would always love to hear what you have to say. I can’t remain like this forever.

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  10. akshita1776 says:

    The last line😥

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  11. Nawazish says:

    The motivation within you to built up again, make you stand up. Loathing in miseries isn’t a solution! Things will not be same as the person has a greater part of himself but there is still something left which he can use to rise up. Change is the only constant. Believe in sensible hope and optimism, brother!😄😄

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    1. Optimism OMG! No! Nahi! Never. 😂😂

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      1. Nawazish says:

        That’s the only word you caught there!🤣🤣 Sensible optimism can be tried?😁😁

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        1. Sensible optimism is also healthy pessimism. Did you know?

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          1. Nawazish says:

            Healthy pessimism is good!🤣🤣

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            1. That’s what I have. Loads of it. Want some, sis?

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            2. Nawazish says:

              I too have enough

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            3. Then spread pessimism 😃

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            4. Nawazish says:

              The world is full pessimists!! Don’t need to spread it!🤣🤣

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            5. No! The world is overflowing with optimists who promote senseless hope and illusion. Please! 😂

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            6. Nawazish says:

              Well I happen to meet lot of pessimists always! Why don’t I find optimist?

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            7. Because you aren’t an optimist. 🤣

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            8. Nawazish says:

              May be! I always find pessimistic people

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            9. It’s true! You aren’t much of an optimist either.

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            10. Nawazish says:

              True that! To irritate you I promote optimism!🤣

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            11. Ahan! It’s a conspiracy then!

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            12. Nawazish says:

              How it is a conspiracy when I am telling you the plan?

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            13. You spilled it accidentally

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            14. Nawazish says:

              Nah! I don’t have to conspire when I can cause head on damage

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            15. Okay that’s damaging enough

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            16. Nawazish says:

              Ahan!🤣🤣 Poor soul!!

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            17. And you’re vicious. 😂

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            18. Nawazish says:

              Learnt from the best, brother!

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            19. I’d like to learn too

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            20. Nawazish says:

              Look in the mirror, teach yourself something!

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  12. Thought provoking lines. I read through the comments as well.
    Experiences do change us. But if we allow the experience to transform ourselves in a sensible way, we emerge stronger and way better than our previous version. Then there’s no point clinging on the the previous selves when we can actually move over to a more evolved self !! Take care.

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    1. Sensibilities change. It all depends on where you’re at, who you’re with and what happens to you. Isn’t that how perspectives are shaped? The world around you is as much responsible for the transformation as an individual.
      Nothing is one sided.
      Thank you.

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  13. Misery is company but even the darkest of clouds will eventually give way to light

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    1. A spark of optimism there

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        1. And the light vanished

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  14. HappySoul says:

    A broken leg can be fixed, but the man will limp for sure! I think he can never be the same again, he will continue with misery as a company or chose a path of nirvana..

    Good morning Bharath 😊

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    1. Hell yeah! You get me. Every time!
      Good morning ma’am 🙂
      How’re you doing?

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      1. HappySoul says:

        😂🙌 told you na… Bharathism ☺️!

        I’m fine Bharath.. good afternoon already! 😊

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        1. Oh please, ma’am! Not that. 😂
          Good afternoon! How’s your health now?

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          1. HappySoul says:

            😂

            Health all fine now.. perfect to party 😄

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            1. Aha! So partying?

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            2. HappySoul says:

              Nah! September hoping to meet my parents .. will party then ☺️

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            3. To the countryside??

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            4. HappySoul says:

              Nope they stay in the same city .. I haven’t met them as we live with a front line doc.. my mom is immuno compromised .. now this doc is shifted to a different location for few months .. so I think I can meet my mom then 😊

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            5. Oh! Let’s go meet mom!!!!

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            6. HappySoul says:

              Yeah 🙌🙌😄😄

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            7. Say hi to mom for me 🙂

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            8. HappySoul says:

              Oh sure! Now I’m imagining .. if I read your posts to her, she will give you good gyan on removing darkness.. brininging in positivity etc etc 😂

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            9. I’d love to talk to her.
              I’m ready for gyan. 😃

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            10. HappySoul says:

              you have no idea how deep the discussion would go 🙂

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  15. Nour R. says:

    A big house can be just as pretty as two small houses. Different tools, mostly same resources. Does that make sense?

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    1. Yep. It’s what you make of things.
      I’m not that dumb. 😂

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      1. Nour R. says:

        I well just making sure 😂😂😂😂 It’s been questionable…
        Anyways I was asking if it was relevant not if you understood the metaphor 😂
        Both work :333

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        1. Okay it is relevant only because it’s coming from you.

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          1. Nour R. says:

            I’m taking that as a compliment 😂 I’m in chem class rn :3

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            1. Spill some NaCl on the screen. 😃

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            2. Nour R. says:

              I’m not planning to eat it 🤨

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            3. How about H2SO4??

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            4. Nour R. says:

              Sulphiric acid can be an electrolyte…although I don’t know if it offers a quick death =)

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            5. Nothing beats cyanide when it comes to quick death.

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            6. Nour R. says:

              I can almost believe you’re speaking from experience mate 😂

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            7. Yeah I have risen from the dead.

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            8. Nour R. says:

              Youve a talent for necromancy too? Interesting 😂

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            9. I’ve sent djinn to haunt you

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            10. Nour R. says:

              Huh. Kewl. 😂

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            11. Don’t say Kewl please 😂😂

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            12. Nour R. says:

              It’s part of the package, Bharath. Embrace it 😂

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            13. What? The absurd lingo??

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            14. Nour R. says:

              Mhm. Either embrace it all or none 😂

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  16. Nathi says:

    What’s broken can be fixed but not restored, brother!

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    1. Fixed? How sis? You can put it back together but it will never be one piece again.

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      1. Nathi says:

        That’s what even I was intending to say, we can fix it as in put it back together to some extent we can never restore it to the original form.

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  17. Theres a couple of line I have heard somewhere
    ‘Uljhoge nai to suljhoge kaise
    Bikhroge nai to nikhroge kaise’

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    1. Sulajhne jitna ulajhna kyu?
      Nikharne jitna bikharna kyu?
      Prevention chahiye humko 😃

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      1. Lol. Prevention chod k sab milega.
        Accusation, affliction, apprehension jo chahiye.

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        1. Shaanti chahiye. Ye sab nai.

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          1. Sabse difficult cheez dhund rae

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            1. Ab chahiye toh dhundna padega

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            2. Ye to hai. Par shanti to person to person differ karta hai.. socho tumko kisme milegi

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            3. Soch rha hu par Kuch mil nhi rha

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            4. Jab bht ho jata to i go for mountains. Peace to nai par thode din ka calm jarur mil jata.
              Try that if it works for you.

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            5. Mountains always work wonders for me. Par time kaha milta hai? Last week gaya tha aur jab waps aaya, everything went back to what it was. 🤦🏻‍♂️

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            6. Phone na le k jao.. bas tum jao

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            7. Phone nhi leke jaata me par plan Karke jaana padega

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            8. This year starting i went to trek and this is d most sane i have returned.
              Shanti difficult hai.. bina planning k jao.. who knows maybe kuch ho jae

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            9. Me jaate rehta hu par na jab wapis aata, it’s the same again.

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            10. Fir to i guess bht sare front pe bht kuch sort out karna hai tumko.
              Shanti tab hi milegi.

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            11. Kabhi kabhi lagta hai shaanti naam ki koi cheez hai hi nai.

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            12. Hahaha.. meko lagta hai shanti is over rated

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            13. Fir Kya kare batao

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            14. Chod dete hai shanti. Aise v i think shanti se thoda boring sa ho jaega. Journey to find shanti is good… Shanti attain karne me no maza.
              What say

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            15. Han ye bhi sahi hai par Shanti mil hi jaati hai. Marne ke baad.

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            16. Exactly see. Jaise hi shanti milti hai life chal jati hai.
              Aise hi better hai.

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            17. Lo safar shuru hogaya

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            18. Tumko mana manzil aur musafir ho gya

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            19. Hahaha! Manzil gayab hai filhal.

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            20. Arey q.. manzil is shanti na. Bas manzil tak jana nai.. safar me hi rehna hai.

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            21. Hu me safar me ab

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            22. Enjoy fir. All the best.

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            23. Same to you 😃

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  18. Cos you can niether undo anything nor fix what’s been broken. Even if you try, it will never be the same again. The cracks remain.
    Last line! 💔

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    1. There’s no point in searching for beauty amidst catastrophe. We have to let it be.

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      1. There is beauty in brokenness 🤷🏻‍♀️

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        1. Pretty optimistic I must say.

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          1. Not at all! I am surprised to see the number of people here who thinks that broken can be fixed 😄
            I am just saying, broken things have better and interesting stories to tell. I mean, just look at your blog 😄

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            1. That’s what optimism does to people. It leads them into an illusion and they’re stuck. Even if they move out of it, the inertia persists.
              Okay now you just called me broken. 😂😂

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            2. All your posts are inspired from that. Broken love! Broken people! Broken promises! Would you write about them if they weren’t so broken 🤷🏻‍♀️

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            3. I’ll try and piece them together one day

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            4. The blog is already doing that for you

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            5. Tell me something I don’t know, you silly goose 🤓

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            6. Off you go, booboo! 😂😂

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            7. 😧😑 Moving on, Bob

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        2. sandhyapise says:

          Broken but beautiful!🙊

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          1. Yeah! Don’t agree? 🙃

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            1. No I don’t. 😂

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            2. But i answered 😎

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